Not the way most people lose someone. Not with a hospital room and a last conversation and the terrible, sacred weight of a goodbye. Owen went to the lake house with my husband Charlie and a group of friends on what started as an ordinary Saturday in early September. By afternoon, a storm had come in fast off the water, the kind that happens without warning in that part of Virginia, and the current had taken my son before anyone could reach him.
Charlie called me from the shore. I heard the weather in the background and his voice coming apart at the seams, and I understood before he finished the sentence.
Search teams worked for four days.
