They found nothing.
They explained, in the kind, exhausted way of people who have had to explain this before, what fast currents do. They used words and phrases that were meant to bring closure and brought only a specific kind of devastation that has no clean name — the devastation of a mother who cannot kiss her child’s face one final time, who has no place to go and stand and be near him.
Owen was officially declared gone without a body to bury.
I broke badly enough that our family doctor had me admitted for observation for several days. Charlie handled the funeral arrangements because I could not get through a full sentence without collapsing, and there is a particular grief that comes with that — the grief of missing even your own child’s service because you are not strong enough to be present for it.
When I came home, I went to Owen’s room and I stayed there.
Charlie went back to work.
