In life, we all tend to find “our people” because things get a lot easier when you have a crew that has your back. In reality, however, things don’t always go as smoothly as we imagine. Why? Because the social world can be a bit of a minefield. Just when you though you’ve finally stumbled upon a meaningful connection with someone who calls themselves your “soul sister,” tagging you in every “bestie” social media post there is, you realize they aren’t who they claim to be.
Fake friends are masters of first impressions and incredibly amazing at that “honeymoon phase” when they are loud, fun to be around, and seem like they are totally in your corner.
While genuine friendships are built on mutual trust and support, the fake ones are built on the favors you can do for them.
It’s a tough pill to swallow, but not everyone who’s nice with you or smiles at you is your friend. Some people only stick around until everything is convenient for them, perhaps your car or your connections.
Knowing how to spot these warning signs is not about paranoia but about keeping yourself safe from becoming exhausted and caught off guard by individuals who only see you as someone to vent to.
Here are seven warning signs that someone in your life is only there to fill space.
