Somewhere between late-night study sessions and walking each other home, friendship turned into love.
After graduation, we moved in together.
He met my sister, Jane, my parents, and eventually became part of every family birthday, holiday, and vacation. I met his best friend Donald and the rest of his family.
Everything blended so naturally that I stopped questioning whether we were moving forward.
The only thing that never moved was the question of marriage.
Last Saturday, my friend Sarah hosted her engagement dinner. Her fiancé had proposed during a hiking trip, and she could not stop showing everyone the photos.
I was happy for her.
I truly was.
But by dessert, her aunt leaned across the table and asked the question people had been asking me for years.
“So, Emma, when is Luke proposing? You two have been together forever.”
I laughed the way I always did.
Light.
Practiced.
Safe.
“Oh, you know Luke,” I said. “He likes to take his time.”
Under the table, Luke squeezed my knee, then immediately changed the subject to football.
He was good at that.
My boyfriend was charming, funny, and quick enough to make people forget the uncomfortable thing they had just asked.
Later that night, while we brushed our teeth side by side, I tried again.
Gently.
“Sarah’s engagement got me thinking,” I said. “Have you thought more about us? About the next step?”
Luke rinsed his mouth, then looked at me in the mirror.
“Em, we’ve talked about this. I want to do it right. We need more savings. Maybe a house first. The timing just isn’t there yet.”
“But it’s been eight years.”
“And it’ll be the rest of our lives,” he said, kissing the top of my head. “What’s the rush?”
I wanted to push harder.
I wanted to say that eight years was not rushing.
