There were good weeks and difficult weeks, and the difficult ones were harder to predict than the literature suggested. Elena’s appetite went first, then her energy in steady increments, and then her hair, which she tried to collect quietly in the shower drain until an evening when she came out of the bathroom with swollen eyes and a fist full of dark strands and stood in the hallway not knowing what to do with what she was holding.
I took the clippers from the cabinet. I sat her down on a chair on the back porch and shaved my own head first, slowly and without making it into a speech, so that she would not have to step off that particular edge alone. Sonia watched from the doorway holding a little box of washable markers. After Elena wrapped a scarf around her head, Sonia asked in her serious careful voice if she could draw small stars on the fabric near the edge so that Mommy could borrow the sky when she was tired.
